Genesis 18:20-32 • Psalm 138 • Colossians 2:6-19 • Luke 11:1-13
[Jesus] was praying in a certain place, and after he had finished, one of his disciples said to him, "Lord, teach us to pray, as John taught his disciples." He said to them, "When you pray, say: Father, hallowed be your name. Your kingdom come. Give us each day our daily bread. And forgive us our sins, for we ourselves forgive everyone indebted to us. And do not bring us to the time of trial." And he said to them, "Suppose one of you has a friend, and you go to him at midnight and say to him, 'Friend, lend me three loaves of bread; for a friend of mine has arrived, and I have nothing to set before him.' And he answers from within, 'Do not bother me; the door has already been locked, and my children are with me in bed; I cannot get up and give you anything.' I tell you, even though he will not get up and give him anything because he is his friend, at least because of his persistence he will get up and give him whatever he needs. "So I say to you, Ask, and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you. For everyone who asks receives, and everyone who searches finds, and for everyone who knocks, the door will be opened. Is there anyone among you who, if your child asks for a fish, will give a snake instead of a fish? Or if the child asks for an egg, will give a scorpion? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!"
Prayer can be a challenge—one of the most challenging practices of our faith. It’s something we’re always learning to do, and always trying to figure out. When the disciples see Jesus praying, they ask him for some help. “Lord, teach us to pray!” (Lk 11:11)
Earlier this year during Lent our church offered the Catechumenate during Lent, a formal time of study, prayer and preparation for candidates who wanted to be baptized or to affirm their baptism. One of our topics was prayer, and I can remember asking the group, “what do you pray for?” One person said, “For my family.” Another, “For myself…but I know I should pray more for other people…” Another said, “To be protected.” It was a brief moment reminding us how easily we turn our prayers inwards on ourselves…how easy it is for us to ask God for what we want, what we need, what we may even feel we deserve…
“Lord, teach us to pray…” It seems like not only do we have trouble with limiting the scope of our prayer to the world as we see it—or want it to be—but we also can get stuck in how we see our relationship with God working through prayer. One of the traps that’s so easy for us to fall in, and that we all do—including me!—is to equate our prayers with a down payment on a service God will provide for us. We so easily start bargaining with God about our prayers: “I prayed for it, God, so why didn’t you give it to me?!” or “I prayed for a good outcome to the surgery, God, why didn’t God heal me?” or “I came to church every day for four weeks to pray that she wouldn’t die…but she still died. Why?” or “God, I pray so hard that life will turn out o.k….so why is my life such a mess?”
Jesus teaches the disciples to pray, giving them the Lord’s Prayer, the form that came into use from the earliest days of Christian practice all the way up until now that we say in worship at the table of Holy Communion. But quite helpfully, in addition, Jesus gives the disciples a parable that illustrates God’s attitude towards us as we pray this Lord’s Prayer. Jesus says our prayers come to God as if someone is coming in need to a friend in the middle of the night, needing bread to put on the table of an unexpected guest. And even though the door has already been locked, the children are in bed, and the door is bolted shut for the night, the friend will open the door to give him what he needs. “Knock, and the door will be opened for you”, Jesus says. OK, great, so all we have to do then is ask and God will eagerly give it to us? Not quite! The door that’s opened to us so readily, so easily…a door that Jesus lodges open with his cross that can never be shut, is the doorway to the unending, ever-living giftedness of who God is to us in Christ: loving, faithful, gracious, merciful, forgiving, dynamic, true and kind. Jesus says no matter how many prayers we offer, no matter how many times we knock on that door, no matter how much bargaining we may do with God…God responds to us not based on anything we do. God responds because of our neediness… God responds in proportion to our brokenness, our pain and our fear…not for how hard or how many times we knock on God’s door. God’s free gifts come through any closed door trying to keep us apart, to share those gifts of God that sustain our relationship with God. Jesus opens the door to provisioning our lives with gifts that turn out to be more than our prayers could ever have bargained for: deliverance from being condemned, from ever being alone, from ever being separated from the love of God revealed to us in Christ!
Martin Luther, in his Small Catechism, a small little book that is in the back portion of our ELW hymnals in the pew, provides a few helpful words in explaining the freedom God has in choosing to be so gracious to us, regardless of what we do, when he explains the second petition of the Lord’s Prayer, “Your kingdom come.” He says, “In fact, God’s kingdom comes on its own, without our prayer…but we ask in this [petition] that [God’s kingdom] may also come to us.” Prayer, then, may also be the doorway not just of opening us to God, but also of God opening up to us, inviting us to be about the work of God that is happening all around us. God’s daily provision given to us never comes only for our own self—but is always given for the building up of the kingdom.
And God gives us more than what we need to build that kingdom right in our own little corner of the world, brothers and sisters. Recently I was reminded of this on a podcast interview on the program Speaking of Faith, a show I highly recommend to everyone—it’s on Sunday mornings on public radio, 91.5 FM, from 7a.m.-8a.m., or, if that’s too early, you can listen online at speakingoffaith.org… The host, Krista Tippett, was interviewing Shane Claiborne, a young Christian who lives in a small intentional community in inner-city Philadelphia that serves the poor there. Mr. Claiborne said:
"I can remember a comic in Philadelphia that was in the paper. [This] one guy said, 'You know, I wonder why God allows all this poverty and pain and hurting in the world?' And his friend says, 'Well, why don't you ask God that?' And the guy says, 'Well, I guess I'm scared.' And he says, 'What are you scared of?' He says, 'I guess I'm scared that God will ask me the same question.' It says if God has been throwing it back [to us] and going, 'Hey, you're my body. You are my hands and my feet.' And, you know, that this is something that we are entrusted with. And I think, probably, one of the most difficult things that Jesus ever did was sort of leave this idea of transforming the world or the kingdom of God…in the hands of such a ragtag bunch of people that goof it up over and over.
We all are goof-ups, indeed. Every one of us. There is no amount of bargaining prayer we can offer to God that can forgive us, save us, or rescue us from our brokenness. But God already satisfies our hunger for the provision we need to be the body of Christ, and to build his kingdom; provisions of daily bread, forgiveness, and guidance.
This past week our presiding bishop Mark Hanson was leading the worldwide assembly of the Lutheran World Federation—the worldwide communion of churches—in Stuttgart, Germany. The theme for the assembly was “Give Us this Day Our Daily Bread”, and in a press conference this week he named a truth about our role in building up God’s kingdom with the provisions of God…he said: “Hunger is not God's fault, it's our fault…If people lack what they need for daily life, it is because we have failed to ensure that the good things of God's creation are justly and equitably distributed to all.” We have a role to play, and it’s to be bearers of the Holy Spirit that Jesus says God promises to give a Holy Spirit that loves not with a love that loves not just some, that loves not only ourselves, love that avoids the needs of a fragile, sick, hungry and violent world… But Jesus opens the door to us for a Holy Spirit that equips us to draw shamelessly near to meet the needs of the suffering, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant it may seem.
One of the most common table prayers we say before meals to give thanks to God is “Come Lord Jesus be our guest, let these gifts to us be blessed.” I encourage you to add another petition on to that prayer as a reminder that the gifts of God, never bargained for, but always freely given, are given to spread what’s at the table for all: “Come Lord Jesus be our guest, let these gifts to us be blessed; blessed be God who is our bread, may all the world be clothed and fed.”
That prayer is prayed not for God to clothe and feed the world, but for God to clothe and feed the world through us. Prayer equips us with God’s gifts, opened through the doorway of Christ, coming to us freely to advance the building up of God’s kingdom: a place that we get to build together, a place that will be more than we could have ever bargained with God for! Amen.